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Sunday, 16 February 2014

notes on prayer

Even here in Kampala, we are still being blessed by our church in Halifax. We often listen to Pastor AJ's podcasts on the Deep Water Church website. This morning we listened to "Circle Maker: Think Long" as part of his series on prayer.

This sermon was all about the fact that we are called to long prayers -- not in terms of minutes, but in terms of how long we regularly pray about the same thing. We are called to pray until something happens.

AJ used Daniel as an example of someone committed to prayer.

When it came to prayer, Daniel had:


  •  Consistency 
    • Daniel prayed regularly -- even his enemies could count on his time of prayer (Daniel 6) 
    • Build prayer into the fabric of your life
    • Choosing a specific time of day (or general time of day) will help you build consistency 
    • "It's about rhythm, not ritual." It's not about going through the motions and mumbling the same words, it's about falling into a rhythm so that when you fall out of it you notice something missing. 
  • Sacred space
    • You can pray anywhere but having a place for prayer -- whether it's the shower, taking a walk with your dog, or the car on the way to work -- trains your mind to turn to prayer in that place
    • You should have daily places, but many people also have special places that they may not go to everyday but go to when they need a longer time of prayer. (Ex: a cathedral, a place in nature, etc) 
    • This place should be free of distractions
  • Symbolic posture
    • This is something we have lost in today's culture
    • There are different prayer postures that may be helpful for you: 
      • laying on of hands 
      • kneeling
      • laying down (especially for private prayer) 
      • having your hands raised
      • hands closed together in agreement
      • Quaker-style: they would begin praying with their palms down, letting go of their own plans or worries, and then as they prayed they would turn their palms up to receive what God wanted to say to them
  • Tenacity 
    • Keeping prayer lists can be helpful, particularly to remind yourself of things that do not directly affect you (praying for others, etc.) 
    • Some people say a list is cold and mechanical, but sometimes the most loving thing you can do is ensure that you don't forget! 
  • Fasting
    • It's not about proving to God how bad we want something, but there is power in how it changes us and helps us focus 
Pray until something happens. After all, what's the alternative? Where else are you going to go? There are things that money, the government, celebrities, medicine and therapists can't fix. As the disciples said to Simon Peter said to Jesus, "‘Lord, to whom shall we go? You have words of eternal life. We have believed and have come to know that You are the Holy One of God.’”

Quotable quotes from AJ Thomas: 

"Prayer is not just talking to God, but fighting alongside God. Prayer is a struggle. Prayer is work." 
"The single, most effective way we can be part of the struggle going on in the world is to pray."
"We can be patient and stick with the One we know can fix it. Or we can turn to things that we know can't."

And a cool verse from Daniel, when the angel appeared to him about he had been praying for the same thing.

"The moment you began praying, a command was given..." (Daniel 9:23)

Although we can't understand exactly how spiritual warfare works, or see the results right away, praying sets things in motion in the spiritual realm. 

Thursday, 14 March 2013

rant about dr. drew on teen mom

Okay, so I realize I'm a little behind, but the reality TV show "Teen Mom" is on Netflix and last week I started watching it.

... I'm already through the first season.

Spare me your lectures about how it's a bad show! I enjoy turning my brain off when I get home from student teaching, especially over March Break, and Teen Mom does that for me. Quite well, actually.

The first season ends with a "check-in" interview with Dr. Drew. I've never seen this Dr. Drew before, but apparently he's on a million other reality TV shows. I don't know this Dr. Drew, but I already can't stand him.

Teen Mom Season 1 Episode 9 was the single worst interview I've ever watched. Here are some reasons why:



1. It was shameless propaganda. Yes, MTV, I get that you should tell your viewers that being a teen mom is not ideal. I get that you should talk about prevention. But really, Dr. Drew? Every other minute awkwardly inserting a fact or statistic you "just read" ... reminding viewers several times that they can visit the MTV website to find out about safe sex ... blahblahblah.

In his efforts to discourage viewers from deciding to have babies, Dr. Drew sacrificed the people he was interviewing -- the girls from the show. At one point he had all four of them up there with their babies (all of them around one year old). Of course, the kids were squirming and touching things. For a few minutes Dr. Drew awkwardly faked being interested in the kids, who he gushed "are amazing." Then he turned to the camera and actually said:

"For all the potential teen moms in our audience... you can see how difficult it is for us to even carry on a three minute conversation. If you are deluding yourself into thinking that you can have a baby, keep going to school, get your GED or have a career ... It's impossible."

Didn't it occur to him that the girls he was interviewing were all trying to do those things? Yes, babies are difficult and teenage viewers need to understand that. But it is not impossible to get your life together after you have an unexpected pregnancy. It's harder, and life will change, but it's not down the drain!

2. Dr. Drew's questions sucked. Did he even prepare for this? He asked vague questions. He asked questions that could be answered with one word. He tried to milk any sentimentality or stir up any drama that he could, and for the most part failed miserably. He constantly stated the obvious. He would have awkward pauses after watching clips from the season: "So, what do you think of that? Any thoughts?" No guidance. Awwwkward. Zero substance.The questions from the audience were much better -- questions like, "What is the greatest sacrifice you have made to be a mother?"

3. Dr. Drew is arrogant and condescending. When the girls were talking amongst themselves and asking questions (one of the best parts) he would interrupt with tagalong comments like, "That's right." As if saying, "Remember! I'm still here! The one trying to be a doctor and claiming to be an expert!" As if because they're teen moms he can put the stamp of approval on comments he deems "right." Rubbed me the wrong way ...

4. Dr. Drew gave horrible relationship advice. First of all, the point of the interview is not for us to watch Dr. Drew solve everything and benefit us all with his nuggets of wisdom. Secondly, the advice itself was bad (besides obvious things like: domestic violence is not good). He totally let Ryan off the hook! This made me so mad. I found it so offensive that he would put the blame on Maci and say things like, "It's different to be a father. It's easier for men to leave their children." As a woman this made me mad, but as a man I'd be mad, too. Men don't love their children? Ryan can be lazy, not care about his kid's first birthday, ignore his son and girlfriend, leave his family to go out drinking and dancing ... because he's a man? Even other fathers on the show prove this theory wrong; Gary and Tyler show way more interest in their children than Ryan does. He then urged the couple to patch things together "for Bentley's sake" -- ouch! Maci has been the only one trying to compromise and then he makes a shot at something she's been so sensitive to the entire season -- trying to make it work for Bentley. So right after Ryan says he doesn't care, he's not sorry for anything, and if Maci wasn't Bentley's mother he'd never even look at her again -- relationship guru Dr. Drew turns to Maci and basically says: "Try harder."

(Oh man ... I'm an official Teen Mom fan ... I can't help it!)

5. Endless recaps of the season. We... know.... We're not watching this for you, Dr. Drew. Give me my moms!

6. Endless comments about "how much we need to cover", "so many things to cover" and "we'll get back to that later." Waste. of. time.

I'm glad I got that off my chest. I admit I wasted the past hour of my life watching that finale, and I also admit that I am going to waste several more hours on the next season of Teen Mom :)